How To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Text?
June 25, 2021
Initiating a conversation with a girl that you know well isn’t that difficult, you already have a very good idea as to what she likes to talk about, things that interest her, and how to grab her attention.
Although, when it comes to texting a girl who you’ve never talked to before, it might prove to be rather tricky.
So how exactly do you initiate a conversation with a girl on text? Well, here’s the deal, the safest and the most appropriate way to start a conversation with a girl is to start asking her the vaguest questions possible. Now, why is that so?
Keep in mind that you have just gotten her number, this is just the beginning of your journey and you probably don’t know anything about her whatsoever, so by asking the vaguest question possible you basically take the simplest first step in getting to know the girl that you’re talking to. You can also use these things when you’re cold approaching women in the street. We also have an in-depth article about how you can successfully do that here. So check that out as well.
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Here’s a list of some ideal vague questions that you can ask.
1. “So, What Was The Best Part Of Your Day Today?”
This is the simplest way to know more about the girl that you’re talking to. By asking this you can easily find out what exactly she likes, dislikes, what parts of the day stand out for her, and what parts of a regular busy day she finds rather mundane.
2. “So What Type Of Things Make You Laugh?”
This question really works, as by asking her this, you will force her to think about all the things that make her really happy and make her laugh.
Just by asking things that make her laugh you instantly put a smile on her face, which ultimately sheds a positive light on you and she will always associate you with positivity and happiness.
3. “What’s Your Favorite Place To Hangout”
This question is also great as it works both ways. While you make her think positively, you also get to know the place she likes to hang out at.
This says a lot about her, if she likes to hang out at bars or pubs, she’s probably a social butterfly, if she mentions a hill station or the countryside then she’s a wanderlust traveler, if her answer is an eatery then she’s a foodie. Hence this is a great question to know more about her.
4. “Which Is Your All-Time Favorite Movie?”
We watch a lot of movies but oftentimes there’s this one movie that has a special bond with us that we just can’t seem to overcome no matter how old it gets. Everybody has such a movie in their mind and what kind of movie it is, say’s a lot about them.
When asked this question, people always give in to their nostalgic feelings which then leads to a very fruitful and meaningful conversation.
5. “Currently, What Are You The Most Ambitious About?” or “What’s Next Big Goal?”
Now this question can prove to be a rather tricky one as it really depends on the personality of the girl to who you’re asking it. If the girl you’re talking to is highly ambitious and passionate about her career, then this proves to be a great conversation starter for her.
But, if the girl you’re talking to is rather laid back and content with the way things are in her life, you might not get much of a conversation out of her. So, think wisely before asking this question.
6. “What Is Your Favorite Way To Spend The Weekend?”
Let’s be honest, weekdays are always so predictable! People are always busy in their jobs and don’t really do much aside from that.
Weekends are the days when people truly lay back and do what they love to do. Asking this question is a great way of knowing her hobbies, her workout routine, her favorite book to read, etc.
7. “What Kind Of Music Do You Prefer?”
These days it’s hard to find someone who does not listen to songs.
With such a wide range of artists and music available to everybody online, each individual has developed an interest in a particular genre be it the latest trending songs on Instagram reels, the latest hits in the world of Hip-hop, the classic rock songs of the ‘70s / ‘80s / ‘90s or just hard-core Heavy Metal.
When it comes to music, everybody has their own cup of tea and it says a lot about that person, so asking this question is a great way to engage her in an interesting conversation.
8. “What Type Of A Kid Were You During Your Childhood?”
One thing you must have noticed about yourself is that you are no longer the kind of person that you once used to be during your childhood.
Over the years you have truly changed and outgrown your childhood personality, despite that, you always share a deep bond with your childhood self which never fades away.
The person you are now is mostly just the outcome of how the World has shaped you to be, while your true self is still somewhere lost in the past.
The reason why this question works so well as a great conversation starter is because it really opens up Pandora’s box of feelings and emotions from within you that you hold dearly to yourself.
9. “What’s A Question That Should I Ask You, That You Don’t Think I’d Ever Ask You By Myself?”
This question is something that might prove to be a hit or a miss. While the question itself is a great one, what it really does is essentially just put the ball in her court so she has to do the job herself.
It’s a commonly known fact that girls talk to several guys on a daily basis and there’s not a question that she hasn’t been asked.
In such situations, chances are that she might get used to answering certain questions while in her head there might be things that she’d always love to talk about but no one really asks her about.
So, this question is a great way to let her open up about herself, and also in that way you’d stand out when compared to the several other guys she talks to.
I hope this article has helped you get an idea as to how to initiate a conversation, I hope you have a great day and best of luck!